The Compassion Code: How to say the right thing when the wrong thing happens

The Compassion Code: How to say the right thing when the wrong thing happens

by Laura S Jack
The Compassion Code: How to say the right thing when the wrong thing happens

The Compassion Code: How to say the right thing when the wrong thing happens

by Laura S Jack

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Overview

What if you knew that compassion was the antidote to healing our hurt, hate-filled world? Would you know how to use it in every circumstance, with family, friends, and strangers alike? Would you be open to doing so, even when it involved acts that may seem unforgivable? Would you be willing to be gentle and sympathetic with yourself?

If you're like many people, your heart desires to be compassionate, yet your head may simply not possess the blueprint for saying those right words at the right time, or for seeing things from a compassionate perspective rather than a judgmental one. After all, we're a product of our upbringing and societal norms, and we're not necessarily taught precisely what living compassionately looks like.

The Compassion Code will completely change that. After losing her mother in a tragic accident, author Laura Jack was devastated. Yet it was also a time of witnessing how people responded to her, how her family grieved differently, and how she responded herself. She went on to become a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist, but beyond that, she became a keen observer of how people were missing a huge opportunity to operate with more compassion. This accessible, wisdom-filled book is the result, addressing topics such as:

  • Knowing what to say--and not to say--when someone is grieving
  • Understanding when to talk and when to simply listen
  • Relating kindly to ourselves
  • Recognizing that everyone has a story
  • Dealing with compassion fatigue
  • Acknowledging instead of "fixing" others with our responses
  • Practicing compassion in daily life with self, other adults, children, and teens

Far from being preachy or disparaging, The Compassion Code awakens the kindheartedness that resides in all of us, urging it to stand strong as we navigate life events that can cause pain, misunderstandings, fear, hatred, and even war. With heartfelt, relatable stories, compassion coaching tips, and abundant loving action steps, the book is an invaluable guide for how to shift our mindset, diminish hurtful viewpoints, and embrace the humanity in each of us.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780998777948
Publisher: Laura Jack
Publication date: 08/16/2017
Pages: 206
Sales rank: 995,871
Product dimensions: 6.00(w) x 9.00(h) x 0.44(d)

About the Author

Laura Jack teaches compassionate communication and how we can relate to one another more effectively during the challenging moments in life. Using practices of self-care and self-love, she helps people rediscover their light after loss. Laura's mission is to cultivate a culture of compassion, starting with self, and to create a better understanding of loss and its accompanying grief. If you want to learn more, visit www.laurajack.com and join the Army of Compassion at https: //www.facebook.com/groups/thearmyofcompassion/ to build bridges of compassion and understanding.

Table of Contents

A Note to the Reader vii

A Special Invitation ix

Part 1: No One Can Ever Prepare You 1

The Truth about Truths 3

Oh the Guilt 6

The Reality About Judgment 8

The Love at First Sight Myth 11

The Glorified Hustle 13

Self-Selected Isolation 15

Part 2: We Are All Different And Yet the Same 17

Common Ground 19

All Kinds of Labels 21

Work-at-Home Mom 22

Single Mom 24

Step-Mom 27

Military Spouse 29

Adoption 31

Hormones 33

Menstruation 36

Pregnancy 39

Postpartum 42

Menopause 45

Hardship & Loss 48

Low Self-Image 49

You Can’t Afford to be a SAHM 51

You Get Sick 55

Someone You Love Gets Sick 62

Surviving Loss 65

Haven’t Been Able to Have Kids 67

Separation and Divorce 69

Part 3: The Boss Side 73

Reasons We Start Businesses 75

Looking for Your WHY 86

Pursuing Balance 89

Collaboration Over Competition 91

Part 4: Finding Your Tribe 95

Who Will “Get Me”? 97

Where to Look 99

How to Engage 101

If You Can’t Find It, Start It 104

Part 5: The True Confession 107

Biscuits & Tea 109

Circles of Understanding 111

Stop Being Embarrassed 112

I Want to Live in a World Where . . . 115

Part 6: What’s Next 117

The Boss Mom Tribe 119

The Boss Mom Companion 121

About the Author 123

Acknowledgements 125

Contributors 127

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