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A New York Times Notable Book • “A thoroughly contemporary—and deeply moving—portrait of a marriage.... In the lineage of great works by Chinua Achebe and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie.” —The New York Times Book Review
 
Ilesa, Nigeria. Ever since they first met and fell in love at university, Yejide and Akin have agreed: polygamy is not for them. But four years into their marriage—after consulting fertility doctors and healers, and trying strange teas and unlikely cures—Yejide is still not pregnant. She assumes she still has time—until her in-laws arrive on her doorstep with a young woman they introduce as Akin’s second wife. Furious, shocked, and livid with jealousy, Yejide knows the only way to save her marriage is to get pregnant. Which, finally, she does—but at a cost far greater than she could have dared to imagine.
 
The unforgettable story of a marriage as seen through the eyes of both husband and wife,
Stay With Me asks how much we can sacrifice for the sake of family.
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An Amazon Best Book of August 2017: “This book nearly destroyed me; you gotta read it." That’s what a colleague said to me about Ayobami Adebayo’s searing debut novel, Stay with Me (and not sadistically!). Taking place in Nigeria, it's the story of Yejide and Akin--a young married couple who are experiencing fertility issues. When the in-laws’ solution is a second wife, they conspire separately to save their relationship, with devastating consequences. I quickly gathered what my colleague meant--much of this novel is a series of unfortunate events. So much so, and sometimes to such cinematic extremes, that when Adebayo interjects humor into the narrative, it’s easily mistaken for something sinister (even when it involves breastfeeding a goat). But her gift is making these extremes make sense. After all, it’s some of our most intimate and profound struggles that can compel us to react in the craziest of ways—ways that just might destroy what was meant to be preserved. Adebayo is such a skilled storyteller that you will forgive Yejide and Akin some serious trespasses; you will weep for their once-happy union that buckles so spectacularly beneath the weight of cultural pressures--pressures that warp their sense of what constitutes a worthwhile life. The couple’s efforts to disentangle their true desires from the ones tradition and society have foisted upon them is what imbues Stay with Me with unexpected power, and heart. You definitely gotta read it. --Erin Kodicek, Amazon Book Review

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Shortlisted for the 2017 Baileys Women's Prize for Fiction

"[A] stunning debut novel…. At once, a gothic parable about pride and betrayal; a thoroughly contemporary—and deeply moving—portrait of a marriage; and a novel, in the lineage of great works by Chinua Achebe and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie…. Adebayo, who is 29, is an exceptional storyteller. She writes not just with extraordinary grace but with genuine wisdom about love and loss and the possibility of redemption. She has written a powerfully magnetic and heartbreaking book."
 —Michiko Kakutani, The New York Times

"A bright, big-hearted demonstration of female spirit, as well as the damage done by the boundlessness of male pride."
The Guardian
 
“Ayobami Adebayo’s taut, intimate debut novel
, Stay with Me... careens backward and forward in time against a backdrop of politics, protests, crime and civil unrest... Close to Lauren Groff’s Fates and Furies…. Conveyed with an operatic intensity that almost approaches the pitch of Elena Ferrante’s The Days of Abandonment.” Anita Felicelli, The San Francisco Chronicle
  
“Stunning…. A work of intimate yet powerful—and even, at times, shocking—storytelling that will grow your sensitivity chip and make your world bigger, too.”
ELLE
 
“An absolute must-read and a story that will be shared for many decades to come.”
—Emma Roberts, Refinery29
   
“Beautiful… Phenomenal… A layered story of love, sacrifice and hope… Adebayo’s debut is undoubtedly one of the best reads of this year.”
—Lihle Z. Mtshali, Essence.com

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B01MTJQK9M
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Vintage
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  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ August 22, 2017
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1.2 MB
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 259 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0451494610
  • Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
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Customers find this novel captivating with plot twists that keep them engaged. The book receives praise for its brilliant writing, with one customer noting the author's deep understanding of human nature. Moreover, customers appreciate its portrayal of different cultures, particularly Nigerian culture, and its exploration of love and loss. The characters are richly developed, experiencing a wide range of emotions, and customers value the book's genuine feel and meaningful insights.

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Unexpected plot, but truly captivating
5 out of 5 stars
Unexpected plot, but truly captivating
I bought this book for an assignment for my class on African Literature. I decided to choose Stay With Me particularly because the description talked about marriage and starting a family. I am a sucker for romance novels, so I was automatically drawn to it. Let me just premise by saying I was not prepared for the journey this book was about to take me on. The story follows a married couple, Yejide (the wife) and Akin (the husband), who have been married for four years, but have failed to have a child. They have tried everything from fertility doctors to herbal remedies to try and have a child, but nothing works. Now the way the description on the back is set up, it seems as though Yejide is the only one trying to have a child. But as we read on, we realize she is not alone in her efforts. From the beginning we see that Yejide is a strong spirited woman, who does not take disrespect lightly. It is not hard to develop this character analysis, but it is important to note it, as the events of the story threaten to change it. For four years Yejide has been berated by Akin’s family about being barren and threatening his family lineage. This invasion into her marriage is constant, and she finally has enough after her mother-in-law introduces Akin’s new second wife, who has married Akin for the sole purpose of having a child for him. This infuriates Yejide, as she and Akin had decided their marriage would not be polygamous. After the introduction of the new wife, Yejide takes the matter of getting pregnant into her own hands. This decision opens up a can of worms that unravels as the story progresses, and truly displays the amount of sacrifice that a couple will go through to have a child. Now Akin on the other hand, is the character that had captivated my full interest by the end of my read. His character development had me on the edge of my seat as I kept reading on, which is what I think made the book that much more interesting. Usually when we think of fertility and starting a family, we solely focus on the mother and how she is handling the situation. Adebayo gives us a unique and truly captivating perspective from the father’s end of the struggle to start a family. To those considering reading this book, I advise you to be prepared for the twists and turns that surround Akin’s character. They are truly unexpected but at the same time really show his investment in having a child with Yejide, despite the circumstances. One aspect of the book that I did not really appreciate until the end of the book was the switching of point of view from Yejide to Akin throughout the book. The switches were subtle and often unrecognizable until a page or two into the chapter, which made the read a bit confusing at times. However, towards the end of the book, I began to understand why Adebayo chose to write from both perspectives. Without giving too much away, I can say that there is a shift in hope towards the end of the story, which explains the switch in perspectives. I know I already mentioned this before, but I loveddd the unexpectedness of the plot. The twists and turns are why I 100% would recommend this book to anyone who is interested in it. It’s a beautifully written and truly captivating story that will have you on the edge of your seat the entire read.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 22, 2019
    Ayobami Adebayo’s Stay With Me is an unconventional imperfect love story about the struggles and cultural dilemmas of Nigerian husband and wife, Yejide and Akin in their modernized monogamous relationship. Through a series of loosely structured letters between the main characters to one another over the decades-long period of their relationship, they take us through the inevitable pits and peaks of their marriage relating to the outside influences of their society, culture, and familial pressure. Primarily, the novel unpacks the rippling impact of the main character, Yejide’s, struggle with infertility in a taboo monogamous marriage to Akin. Adebayo’s gripping novel sheds light on a crucial yet underrepresented aspect of the African experience in a modernizing, westernizing society. She provides a fictional yet accurate account of the dilemma of adapting to an ever-changing world while also maintaining respect and solidarity with the cultural origins of one’s community. Through Yejide’s conflicted inner dialogue, sporadic patterns of mental disarray, and questionable decision making in the novel, the author does a compelling and accurate job of displaying just how impactful and oppressive dealing with this conflicted identity can be on an African individual in the westernizing world or rather for any individual altogether. Adebayo also presents the theme of the unwavering love between Akin and Yejide despite the various tribulations in their complex marriage. This works as a refreshing plot element considering the commonly toted stereotypes about faulty African men in relationships or “African” polygamous relationships altogether. Moreover, in the backdrop of the story, Adebayo presents issues of national violent rebellion and community violence in Nigeria, which works to emphasize the reality of the characters’ experiences while also symbolically highlighting the themes of disarray and conflict inside and out of their relationship with one another as well as the internal conflict within the main characters themselves. Overall, the book sends compelling crucial messages about the complexities of love, human nature, and culture inevitably within all of us and how these complexities can positively or negatively impact our lives and relationships.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 19, 2024
    In "Stay With Me," Ayobami Adebayo delivers a poignant and deeply emotional narrative exploring the complexities of marriage, fertility, and societal expectations in Nigeria. The story follows Yejide and Akin, who, after years of struggling to conceive, find their vows tested when Akin's family introduces a second wife to their lives. Adebayo artfully navigates Yejide's feelings of betrayal, jealousy, and desperation as she grapples with the dire need to secure her place in Akin's life, leading her down a path filled with unintended consequences.

    Told from alternating perspectives, the novel offers a rich and nuanced examination of both characters' inner struggles and desires. Adebayo’s masterful storytelling highlights the weight of cultural pressures and the sacrifices made for the sake of family, ultimately prompting readers to reflect on the boundaries of love and loyalty. "Stay With Me" is an unforgettable and compelling tale that lingers in the mind long after the last page is turned, making it a must-read for fans of poignant literary fiction.
  • Reviewed in the United States on March 22, 2018
    I don't think this book would have found its way into my hands without the MMD Book Club. It is a touching, sad, funny and beautiful story of love, loss and finding out what you can live with and what you can't. Stay With Me is set in the political upheaval of Nigeria that echos the upheaval of family and love
    I loved learning about the customs and superstitions of this culture and also how younger generations bridged between modern living and old beliefs. Pressures are high to conform to some of the cultural norms (many wives and children) but not to others (not educating women). Yejide and especially Akin are caught between their own wants and the expectations of their families.
    Yejide was a very strong female character and I felt her pain and loss. She very much loved Akin and even though she felt betrayed by him she still loved him. She still chose to be his wife. Akin was a character that I liked at first but as the story went on, I liked him less and less. He is truly devoted to Yejide but I found him weak and hypocritical.
    Stay With Me is a very emotional but beautiful book and I am so glad that I read it and was able to discuss it with others.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 11, 2023
    This has alot to give to a reader looking for relating to life-filled drama.

Top reviews from other countries

  • Tuya
    5.0 out of 5 stars Five star read
    Reviewed in South Africa on March 26, 2025
    A book I will always recommend, arrived in great condition.
  • miss c
    5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastically written!
    Reviewed in the United Arab Emirates on September 14, 2022
    I absolutely loved this book and couldn't put it down! The story keeps you gripped throughout and really delves into Nigerian culture and customs regarding marriage and child-rearing.

    I wanted to read it again as soon as I finished it.
  • T Boateng
    5.0 out of 5 stars Stay with me
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 1, 2025
    A gripping love story dealing with fertility, abandonment, betrayal and resolution. It speaks to the love a mother has for their child. Beautifully written and a fantastic ending. Really enjoyed this book.
  • Book lover
    5.0 out of 5 stars A powerful and truly African story
    Reviewed in India on December 29, 2023
    Stay With Me.
    A powerful and truly African story.
    Hats off to Ayobami Adebayo for her debut novel. I bought this book after reading her second book, ‘A Spell of Good Things’, which was long-listed for the 2023 Booker’s Prize, and she was unfortunate that she didn’t get the prize.
    Ayobami has chosen a very delicate and sensitive topic of male impotence and his ego and has challenged the typical patriarchal Nigerian society. The narration is flawless and emotionally charged, and she ensures that the female lead always has an edge.
    I was thinking of a different ending.
    This story and even acknowledgements show that she is not influenced by any European colonialism or American empire, which writers from South-Asian and African countries consider a must-have and inescapable.
    I recommend one must have this book on their bookshelf.
    Five stars and a stroke of good luck for her bright future, including a Nobel in literature.
    Majul.
    Delhi.
    India.
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    Book lover
    5.0 out of 5 stars
    A powerful and truly African story

    Reviewed in India on December 29, 2023
    Stay With Me.
    A powerful and truly African story.
    Hats off to Ayobami Adebayo for her debut novel. I bought this book after reading her second book, ‘A Spell of Good Things’, which was long-listed for the 2023 Booker’s Prize, and she was unfortunate that she didn’t get the prize.
    Ayobami has chosen a very delicate and sensitive topic of male impotence and his ego and has challenged the typical patriarchal Nigerian society. The narration is flawless and emotionally charged, and she ensures that the female lead always has an edge.
    I was thinking of a different ending.
    This story and even acknowledgements show that she is not influenced by any European colonialism or American empire, which writers from South-Asian and African countries consider a must-have and inescapable.
    I recommend one must have this book on their bookshelf.
    Five stars and a stroke of good luck for her bright future, including a Nobel in literature.
    Majul.
    Delhi.
    India.
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  • Rosmo
    5.0 out of 5 stars Gripping
    Reviewed in Australia on August 21, 2024
    A great read.

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