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Eldest Daughter Syndrome: Empowering Big Sisters to Break Free From Family Expectations, Reclaim Their Identity, and Find Freedom Paperback – October 21, 2024

by Jaylee Wade (Author)
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You are the Eldest Daughter.
Part Nurturer, Part Problem-Solver, and Part Family Superhero.

You navigate the complex dynamics of being the first daughter, often shouldering responsibilities and expectations others may never fully comprehend.

Eldest Daughter Syndrome probes into this unique experience, offering both validation and empowerment for those who’ve lived it.

This book is your guide to understanding the social, cultural, and psychological dimensions of being the eldest daughter. It explores the invisible pressures and unspoken obligations that come with the role, revealing how these expectations shape your relationships and life choices.

Packed with practical strategies and relatable anecdotes, this book offers tools to help you set healthy boundaries, delegate without guilt, and prioritize your own well-being.

Here, you’ll discover
  • The emotional impact of Eldest Daughter Syndrome.
  • How to navigate complex family dynamics.
  • Strategies to combat perfectionism, set realistic standards, and embrace your individuality.
  • Tools for prioritizing self-care to balance family obligations and pursuing your aspirations.
  • A guide on how to END the cycle to REDEFINE success and fulfillment on your own terms.

But more than just exploring challenges, Eldest Daughter Syndrome is a powerful call to action to break free from these invisible chains and reclaim your life.

Whether you’re seeking to understand your past, find balance in your present, or reshape your future, Eldest Daughter Syndrome is the compassionate and inspiring guide you’ve been waiting for.

It’s time to let go of the expectations and embrace the freedom to live the life YOU deserve!
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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0DJY49QY1
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Independently published (October 21, 2024)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 156 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 979-8342664004
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 10.4 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 0.36 x 9 inches
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Jaylee Wade is a UK-born writer and educator who knows a thing or two about being the eldest daughter. As the big sister to two younger brothers, she’s been navigating the ups and downs of family dynamics her whole life.

Her experiences through these roles—both personally and professionally—are what inspired her to better understand the unique pressures on eldest daughters.

With a background in teaching and years spent working with kids, Jaylee’s seen firsthand how birth order can shape our emotions and development. Her experiences as a mom have only deepened her understanding of family relationships and the expectations often placed on girls in leadership roles.

Now, as a full-time writer, Jaylee focuses on creating books that help kids thrive emotionally. Her mix of personal experience and professional know-how makes her a relatable and insightful guide for eldest daughters looking to balance their own needs with the responsibilities they carry.

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    5.0 out of 5 stars I Needed This When I Was Younger.
    Reviewed in the United States on November 6, 2024
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    As I read through this book I saw too many similarities to my childhood and life as the eldest daughter, the expectations placed upon me and my responses and reactions. I could also understand, appreciate, and sympathize with some of the examples of eldest daughters in other cultures and socioeconomic circumstances. I appreciated the chapters on affirmations and boundaries, the use of quotes, and even the examples of songs. This book is written in plain, clear language and short sentences. It's easy to read, and says a lot. I expect the author is an eldest daughter, too. Well done! I shall recommend it to my friends who have also lived with the expectations of being the first born daughter.
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    5.0 out of 5 stars Empowering and relatable
    Reviewed in the United States on November 7, 2024
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    Eldest Daughter Syndrome dives into a reality familiar across many cultures: the unique pressures placed on first-born daughters. The book thoughtfully addresses how these responsibilities, often woven into cultural and familial expectations, shape identity and personal growth. With empathy and actionable advice, it empowers readers to recognize and manage these roles, offering guidance on setting healthy boundaries and redefining oneself beyond family expectations.
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  • Kristine
    5.0 out of 5 stars Very Interesting To Read
    Reviewed in the United States on October 28, 2024
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    “Eldest Daughter Syndrome” Presents an interesting and informative guys about how societies expectations of the oldest daughter and my family except her. Present, cultural, religious, and geographical differences, and how society norms are for the oldest daughter. I found it very interesting to read the differences. Although they are the same does depend on where you live and what culture within that presents different expectations around very good read!
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  • Richard
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great read!
    Reviewed in the United States on March 7, 2025
    This book is a super validating and insightful exploration of the unique pressures that come with being the firstborn daughter. It talks about topics such as emotional, cultural, and psychological weight carried by eldest daughters. The book not only acknowledges the invisible responsibilities many eldest daughters take on but also provides actionable strategies for setting boundaries and overcoming perfectionism. This is a must read for those who have felt the weight of always having to be responsible or self sacrificing.
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  • Colorfully Optimistic
    5.0 out of 5 stars A Must-Read for Mothers with Multiple Kiddos
    Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2025
    As a mother of three daughters spanning various ages, I found this book to be incredibly insightful. It offered valuable perspectives that resonated with my experiences, especially in understanding and connecting with my eldest. The author's approach to addressing the challenges and dynamics of raising children with significant age differences was both enlightening and practical. I highly recommend this read to any parent seeking to bridge the gap and foster stronger relationships among their children.
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  • Holly Sanders
    5.0 out of 5 stars A must-read for (moms of) eldest daughters everywhere
    Reviewed in the United States on February 12, 2025
    As a mom of two teens, I picked up Eldest Daughter Syndrome to better understand my older daughter’s experiences, and it was such an eye-opener. The book does an incredible job breaking down the unique pressures eldest daughters face, like perfectionism and unspoken family responsibilities, in a way that’s easy to understand and deeply relatable. I especially appreciated how the author used the concept of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care—it’s practical and empowering advice that I’ve already shared with my daughter. This book is a heartfelt and helpful resource for anyone navigating or supporting the role of an eldest daughter. Highly recommend!
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  • K Clark
    5.0 out of 5 stars As an eldest daughter with an older brother I was so curious...
    Reviewed in the United States on January 30, 2025
    Until I saw this book, I didn't even know this was a thing. I've heard and read about the basic birth order research, but this book peak my interest. I loved that this book addressed different ethnic families and their similiarities and differences. I found so much of this that applied to me and that I hadn't realized before. So, where you are a eldest daughter or are trying to learn much about your family's dynamics, this is a great place to start!
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  • J.D.B
    5.0 out of 5 stars Read this for my sister
    Reviewed in the United States on January 8, 2025
    I am the second child in a family who grew up with a spectacular elder sister. I always knew she experienced certain trials and stresses I never did, and I wanted some insight on what all she and others in her shoes might have gone through. I absolutely feel like I did with this book and I feel all the more grateful to her now.
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  • A.Shaw
    5.0 out of 5 stars Very insightful and powerful
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 19, 2025
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    It was a great read for the eldest daughter in a family. Very insightful and powerful in terms of understanding the dynamics and dysfunction a family and what the eldest daughter may face in this role. Lots of helpful information and strategies to utilise and live a better life as the eldest daughter.
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  • Annie Alex
    5.0 out of 5 stars Worthwhile read
    Reviewed in Australia on February 1, 2025
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    This book really hit home for me as an eldest daughter. It dives deep into the unique struggles we face and provides practical advice on setting boundaries and prioritizing ourselves without the guilt. The relatable stories and actionable strategies made me feel both seen and empowered. It’s a must-read for anyone looking to break free from the weight of family expectations.
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  • E.E.
    5.0 out of 5 stars refreshing read
    Reviewed in Australia on February 1, 2025
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    If you are the eldest daughter and do feel the pressure of being born one, give this book a read.
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