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The Loving Yourself Book For Women: A Practical Guide to Boost Self-Esteem, Heal Your Inner Child, and Celebrate the Woman You Are Kindle Edition
The priceless gift for any woman seeking self-discovery and the path to true happiness!
**Chosen by ASPIRE Magazine's monthly Top 10 Inspiring Books!**
Written by prize-winning author Diana Rachel Bletter, this comprehensive, must-read guide will provide you with the tools and insights you need to build self-compassion, increase your self-worth, and transform your life.
In this book, you will find:
- A self-love checklist to assess your current level of self-love and identify areas for growth
- Daily practices and practical tips for incorporating self-love into your routine
- An understanding of the importance of self-care and how to prioritize it in your life
- Strategies for building self-esteem and letting go of expectations that hold you back
- Tools for overcoming fear, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs that hinder your potential
- Confidence-boosting tips for making decisions with ease and clarity
- An examination of the impact of family history on self-worth and relationships and practical steps for healing past wounds
- A deep dive into the power of self acceptance and how to practice it in your daily life
- A comprehensive list of resources and references for additional support and growth
- And a whole lot more!
More than just a self-help book, this is a roadmap to the life you've always dreamed of.
With Diana's relatable writing style, life experience and compassionate approach, you'll have everything you need to become the confident, self-assured woman you were meant to be.
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- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateMay 28, 2023
- File size830 KB

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"This book covers all the challenges that women face on their journey toward self-love. Diana offers practical, wonderful suggestions for concrete actions each day. It's a how-to guide with clearcut instructions for women to build their confidence, reduce fear and grow toward loving themselves." -- Margaret A. O'Hara PhD, LPCC, LMHC, NCC, BC-TMH, CET II, CASAC, ICADC, PPS, Therapist and University Adjunct Professor
"I think of this book as Loving Yourself 101. The author doesn't waste your time talking about theories but gives useful tips that you can already put into practice. By the end of the book, you'll definitely feel more positive about yourself." -- Renée Callari, Life Enrichment Manager
"The Loving Yourself Book is an inspiring guide that offers hope and encouragement for every woman who's learning to love herself. Diana weaves her personal stories with other women's experiences so that you feel like she's walking with you on your journey toward self-love. It affirms all you could be, and all you are." -- Melody Kimmel, Founder and CEO, MK Media Training LLC
"Give yourself a gift and read this book It has tips and tools that you can start to use instantly. It delivers its key messages with empathy and insights to help you change your opinions about yourself. And your life." -- Michele Ramirez, Licensed Social Worker
"As a male group facilitator, I'm convinced that this is a must-read book for anyone looking to gain more practical tools and knowledge on helping individuals strive and achieve self-love, regardless of gender. I wish I read this book years ago when I first started going through my own personal growth and development process. Thank you for this!" -- Tom Ringes, Group Facilitator
From the Author
I've come to understand that we each have a story to tell; we each have survived difficult experiences. We're heroes of our own life story. And there's much we can learn from one another. I've spent hundreds of hours listening to women talk about the steps they took to heal themselves and then to love themselves. I've worked like a scientist in a laboratory, applying other women's tips, tools, and suggestions to improve my own situation. Every day I did the work. Every day I still do the work. Learning to love myself isn't something that happens overnight. This is a daily practice because life itself is a daily practice. Slowly, I began to feel I could not only love the woman I am but celebrate who I am.
This book is a compilation of all that I've learned that I want to pass on to you.
By loving yourself, you'll be able to tap into a deep reservoir of healing and power. You'll see that you're never alone. You'll understand that it doesn't matter who abandons you, because you'll learn to never abandon yourself. You'll be able to face any problem or crisis in life with a solid inner core, feeling as if the sun is always shining down upon you and you're channeling all the love in the Universe.
How do you achieve self-love? What does it look like? What does it feel like? How do you manifest it on a daily basis?
Loving yourself is:
- The ability to say no to others and yes to yourself
- Practicing self-care
- Saying, "I'd rather do this" or "I'd rather not do that" instead of "I don't mind" or "I don't care"
- Treating yourself with tenderness, the way you treat your puppy, kitten, child, or loved one
- Standing in a crowd of people and not competing or comparing
- Feeling content being you, even when your life is difficult
- Filling your own well and not waiting for other people or outside things to fill it
From the Inside Flap
Loving yourself means doing things each day to make you feel that love. In this book, I will show you how these tools can help you in all aspects of your life, no matter what you face—whether you're getting married or staying married, having children or applying for a new job—because self-love is the most effective way to live, make good choices, take action, and be content in your life.
Loving yourself will help you:
- Make appropriate choices
- Take care of yourself
- Boost your self-esteem
- Let go of expectations
- Lose your resentments
- Conquer fear
- Learn acceptance
- Heal your relationships
From the Back Cover
Inside, you'll learn how to:
Outgrow fear and doubt
Boost your self-esteem
Overcome limiting beliefs
Make decisions with confidence
Build stronger, healthier relationships
Cultivate a sense of joy, gratitude, and love in your life
Set up a routine for self-love starting today
This practical guide will help you work magic on your relationships, work, and health.
Diana Rachel Bletter, a prize-winning author with a degree from Cornell University, has written for major publications such as The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Commentary, and many more. More than just a self-help book, this is a roadmap to the life you've always dreamed of. Don't wait any longer to start your journey towards fulfillment and self-love.
About the Author
Bletter is the author of several books including National Jewish Book Award nominee, The Invisible Thread: A Portrait of Jewish American Women (Jewish Publication Society), and the novel, A Remarkable Kindness(HarperCollins).
The Loving Yourself Book for Women draws on her own personal experience. She and her husband have raised six children in a blended family along with an unofficially-adopted daughter from Ethiopia.
Despite her best efforts, she spent a long time in the swamp of self-hate. She came to understand that the only way she could climb out was to love herself with all she had. And when she couldn't find a practical guide on how to do it, she wrote it herself. Her goal is to help others improve their relationship with themselves. She has mentored dozens of women on their journey of self-discovery and empowerment.
She enjoys spending time outdoors with her family, learning new languages (she's up to 7), and snowboarding. She also leads workshops in writing. Learn more about her at her website, dianabletter.com.
Product details
- ASIN : B0C5D9742C
- Publisher : Kent & Cordell
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- Publication date : May 28, 2023
- Language : English
- File size : 830 KB
- Simultaneous device usage : Unlimited
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 126 pages
- ISBN-13 : 978-0985343255
- Page Flip : Enabled
- Best Sellers Rank: #267,621 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #16 in Family & Personal Growth
- #51 in Women's Personal Spiritual Growth
- #61 in Women's Inspirational Spirituality
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About the author

Diana Bletter is a reporter at The Times of Israel. She is the author of several books, including the National Jewish Book Award nominee, The Invisible Thread: A Portrait of Jewish Women, the novel, "A Remarkable Kindness" (HarperCollins) and the memoir, The Mom Who Took off on Her Motorcycle. Her writing has appeared in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Commentary, and a wide variety of publications. A native New Yorker and Cornell University graduate, she has lived in a small beach village in northern Israel since 1991 where she and her husband raised six children and an unofficially adopted daughter from Ethiopia.
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- Reviewed in the United States on June 12, 2023As an avid reader who has delved
into numerous books on self-love and personal development, "The Loving Yourself Book for Women" stands out as an absolute gem. Written with compassion, wisdom, and a deep understanding of the struggles women face in embracing their worth, this book has truly touched my heart and transformed my perspective.
From the moment I started reading, I felt an instant connection with Diana Rachel Bletter's words. Her personal stories, relatable examples, and practical advice resonated with me on a profound level. It was as if she understood the complexities of my own journey towards self-love and offered guidance tailored specifically to my needs.
What sets this book apart is its unique blend of practical tools and heartfelt inspiration. Diana doesn't just preach about the importance of self-love; she provides a comprehensive roadmap, guiding us through exercises, reflection prompts, and actionable steps that can be incorporated into our daily lives. This book is not just about theory; it's about tangible transformation.
One aspect that particularly touched me is the author's emphasis on healing and embracing our past. Diana's insights into overcoming fear, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs have been instrumental in my own healing process. Her words have given me the courage to confront my past wounds, release self-imposed limitations, and step into my power as a woman.
Moreover, I appreciate the author's commitment to giving back. By donating a portion of the book's proceeds to AMEN, an organization supporting survivors of sexual abuse, Diana goes beyond mere words and exemplifies the true spirit of empathy and compassion.
I highly recommend "The Loving Yourself Book for Women" to every woman who is on a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and healing.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 4, 2023Game-Changing Guide for Loving Yourself
There isn’t another self-love guide that combines both practical tools, heartfelt support and personal stories. Using examples from her own life, Diana Rachel Bletter inspires readers on their own journey. I liked her personal style. I felt like I was reading the words from a life coach or a wise elder. She encourages you to get moving and start each day to do things to love yourself.
Take-aways: looking in the mirror and telling myself, “I love you.” It sounded weird at first but once I started doing it, I really did feel a better sense of connection with my inner self.
There are lots of self-help books that have made me feel worse because I think I should be “better” instantly. What I’ve learned is that loving yourself is a practice that you have to do each day. It becomes a habit.
The book was very well-written, earnest and sincere. Her encouraging words and very funny stories have enabled me to think about my past and move forward. I loved this book! Highly recommended!
5.0 out of 5 starsGame-Changing Guide for Loving YourselfGame-changing guide to loving yourself
Reviewed in the United States on October 4, 2023
There isn’t another self-love guide that combines both practical tools, heartfelt support and personal stories. Using examples from her own life, Diana Rachel Bletter inspires readers on their own journey. I liked her personal style. I felt like I was reading the words from a life coach or a wise elder. She encourages you to get moving and start each day to do things to love yourself.
Take-aways: looking in the mirror and telling myself, “I love you.” It sounded weird at first but once I started doing it, I really did feel a better sense of connection with my inner self.
There are lots of self-help books that have made me feel worse because I think I should be “better” instantly. What I’ve learned is that loving yourself is a practice that you have to do each day. It becomes a habit.
The book was very well-written, earnest and sincere. Her encouraging words and very funny stories have enabled me to think about my past and move forward. I loved this book! Highly recommended!
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- Reviewed in the United States on June 7, 2023I really got a lot out of a quick read of this book, and I am planning to reread it with pen in hand and a nice, blank journal. The book is a combination of the author's own life reflections, sage advice, and questions to ponder that can bring about powerful self-awareness. I loved the author's humor, as well as her intuitive insights into conflict resolution, communication, and personal development. It's appropriate for women who are seeking a guide for reflection, going through life stage changes, or simply working on their own emotional development. For those who have experienced sexual trauma, this book may have an added level of depth as the author shares her experiences, healing, and growth related to childhood sexual trauma (not graphically described, but mentioned in helpful ways as related to triggers, emotional processing, and continued healing).
Note: I claimed a free promotional copy of this e-book to read, and I chose - based on my positive experience - to write a review of the content.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 17, 2025Wish the print had been a bit larger
- Reviewed in the United States on May 29, 2023This book is a remarkable and empowering guide that provides practical advice and strategies for women to enhance their self-esteem and cultivate a loving relationship with themselves. Written with compassion and expertise, this book offers valuable insights and actionable steps to help women embrace their worth and lead fulfilling lives.
One of the book's greatest strengths lies in its emphasis on practicality. The author understands that self-love is not merely a concept but a practice that requires conscious effort and consistent actions. Throughout the book, readers are presented with a wide range of exercises, reflective prompts, and self-care techniques that can be easily implemented in daily life. These tools enable readers to gradually build a strong foundation of self-esteem and self-acceptance. Recommended
- Reviewed in the United States on October 23, 2023I am a father-in-law and a grandfather of two teenaged young women.
I read the title and then the book and immediately realized the positive psychological attitude which is promoted stepwise in this easy to read and follow book. The author provides a useful toolkit which is practical and easy to follow.
Ms. Bletter has a unique talent for hitting important aspects of self respect which are so important in today's challenging world.
I am happy to share that I, as a man. also benefitted from a deeper understanding of women's psychological stressors and needs as well as my own.
I liked the style and the format and content.
I liked the author's ideas and invaluable insights.
This is a must-read for everyone.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 22, 2025Loved how much this book has changed the way I feel about myself. It gives little reviews at the end of each section that helps you apply the information you are learning in this book to your life. Highly recommend.
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- Emma HardingReviewed in the United Kingdom on July 16, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars A must-read book
Deep. Insightful. Practical.
This book will change your life.
Have you ever let fear of rejection stop you from asking?
Have you said yes when you really wanted to say no?
Do you put things off because you're afraid they won't be good enough?
Be prepared to face some hard truths about your thought patterns and how they impact the choices you make.
The author masterfully makes us aware of how we think and feel on a daily basis, which might come as something of a shock, yet she guides us through the process compassionately.
Through sharing her own experiences and trauma, she is able to connect to the reader openly and with vulnerability. The reader trusts her insights and advice as she gently encourages us to make positive changes to our lives.
Most importantly, she gives practical tips and implementable strategies which can be adapted to suit each reader.
It's a book everyone should read.
- WillReviewed in Canada on August 31, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars recommend
Given it as gift to women twice
- ConnieReviewed in Australia on January 17, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars A Practical and Inspirational Book
The book shines light on areas we overlook in how we treat ourselves. The self-reflective guides are very helpful in showing us what else we can do to love ourselves more. I would read it again!
- A. GatoReviewed in Italy on July 8, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars A heartfelt and inspiring guide
I loved this book because it encourages me to prioritize self-love and care in my life. It gives me practical tools, exercises, and affirmations to help me develop a positive self-image and cultivate a deep sense of self-worth.
One of the book's greatest strengths is its compassionate tone: it’s written with warmth and empathy, with a genuine desire to uplift and empower.
The book covers a wide range of topics, including self-acceptance, self-care, relationships, body image, and personal growth. It gave me insights on how to set boundaries, practice self-care rituals, and engage in positive self-reflection.
Overall, this book is a powerful and uplifting read that encourages women to prioritize their well-being and embrace their true selves.
- Lucia BazanReviewed in Canada on January 17, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Lessons to love yourself
For any woman who cannot stop putting others first and feeling that no one recognizes your hard work, this book is for you. This is a practical guide to learn to love yourself. Step by step keep a healthy body and mind, techniques to rediscover yourself worth and new routines to integrate in you everyday life. As the author said, “you can travel the world but you’ll never find anyone who deserves your love as much a you do”.