RUNNING AND CHASING

Running and Chasing is a matter of perspective — each twin flame has a unique share of the twin flame journey. Each one has roles to play in the advancement of their growth processes. The connection to a twin flame can trigger you to confront yourself when running or chasing. The Twin Flame journey sheds more light on the Twin Flame chaser’s emotional pain and chaotic experiences because it seems as if the chasing Twin Flame wears their heart on their sleeve. They express themselves and how they feel. A chasing twin flame is more comfortable at feeling disarmed.

The running twin flame struggles more with this phase; you have no idea what is happening to you. You are naive about the twin flame experiences. It is also challenging for the twin flame runner to express themselves because of the dominant masculine energy — a running twin flame does not want to feel any feelings of vulnerability. They struggle with inner resistance to feeling the connection. The more you resist the connection, the more frustrated you feel because nothing can stop you from feeling the energetic share and merging.

From the lessons I learned during the running and chasing phase, a chasing a twin flame feels they are running from themselves as much as the runner. You feel unexplained fears within that you feel too weak to confront your demons. You also know that deep down, your suffering is triggered because you have certain parts of yourself that you believe are undesirable. When you have deep core wounding and suffering, you assume your twin flame will fix you. You also think your twin flame is the cause of your pain.

So, your runner twin flame shows his or her running traits physically by blocking you and doing all the runner shenanigans. Yet, on the other hand, the chaser twin flame does the same energetically. In essence, realize you are ebb and flow with your twin flame partner. You operate as a single energetic unit. You are each other — therefore running and chasing are only labels to describe how you feel.

Emotional desolation: Life is more challenging and complicated when you have no idea what is happening to you. You don't know how to express your feelings -- you are not used to feeling vulnerable. A Twin Flame runner struggles with expressing his or her feelings. It is better to run than stay in a very uncomfortable situation since your twin flame disarms you. It always seems easier for the chaser twin flame because you can embrace the tempestuous feelings.

Spiritual Awakening and Growth: You never anticipate all the circumstances that follow suit after your Spiritual awakening. The mere fact that you are not a spiritual person is already an obstacle because it takes you ample time to embrace all the alchemical changes that come your way. You physically block a twin flame or hide from them but it does not stop you from feeling the connection. The spiritual awakening phase becomes chaotic at first: All the changes that come your way can throw you off balance. You feel emotionally disoriented or unhinged.

Realization Phase: The peaceful days. The most revered phases of the Twin Flame journey. One day it hits that you already found your greatest love. You realize that your search was already over before you knew it. You connect all the dots right from the beginning of your encounter. You understand how nothing is just random.

This simple book is helpful to you who are struggling with the running and chasing process. It is also insightful to you who is a newbie to the twin flame process.

Stay Blessed!