No-one knows what to expect when a parent or loved one is diagnosed with dementia. Kit Derrick's 'Has The Lady Been Yet?' follows his own journey down this path, from the initial diagnosis to the ultimate loss of his mother. The book traces the practicalities of caring, but also quite openly discusses the emotions, guilt and helplessness of finding yourself in that role. But as the book points out, there are moments of joy in the darkest of times, and there is always hope for the good days. And there will be good days, as well as bad